Merry Christmas :))

Omg, I am so glad to finally be in bed laying down. I woke up at 7ish and put the Ham in the oven, we opened gifts... well Jordyn did most of them were for her as it should be. That took about an hour, she is one blessed child. I cooked for about 5 hours and was done by 3 but we didnt eat til about six because Nick fell asleep on us. We had honey glazed ham, candied yams, home made mac n cheese, collard greens, green beans and bacon, baked beans with ground beef, loaded mashed potatoes, deviled eggs and dinner croissants.  I have no idea when I became all domesticated. Before I got married, me and cooking never went in the same sentence. It was nice to cook for my family and  now I have a greater appreciation for my mother and her cooking big meals for the holidays. I am pooped. I had to break it down to Nick like this today cause the whole situation is bothering me seriously. I told him in 10 days he will be going to JRTC for 30 days, when he gets back around the 5th of February he will be home for a few days before Jordyn goes to South Carolina to visit his Mother and Stepdad for two weeks before we move back to California. This will also give us a chance to do something for our one year wedding Anniversary February 13th, and have her out of the way while we pack up the house and get everything into storage. When she returns we will have one week before Jordyn and I fly back to California on February 28th. He still doesn't know when his max/block leave starts in March. But it is for two weeks so they say. I'm thinking it would be the First and Second week of March which will give them two weeks before deployment, Right? I tell him I think that February should be the last month that he pays for rent, and he starts huffing and puffing about us going back to California and him not having anywhere to stay? Hello, excuse me you will be in California for two weeks why would you want to pay rent, water and electricity for a month only to stay in a house with no furniture for 2 weeks. He can stay on base in the barraks! A lot of his single friends stay off base instead of in their rooms, he even has a friend who has two other roomies that live with him and his wife and they are all deploying with the same company. He is always complaining about money, but does nothing to save money. That irritated the shit out of me, i just had to walk away because I didn't want to ruin the day by going off on him. Little does he know I will be in contact with our landlord at the first of the month and let her know we wont be able to stay til the end of our lease in May, we signed a Military Clause and her and her husband are also military they will understand. I know my husband really well, I let him hoop and holler and make himself look like a complete idiot and then a few days later he will see it my way and get to apologizing. He always wants to be in control and he always wants to have the say. He never was like that until he joined the Army, before then I was supporting our family, so now I guess he needs to feel like a MAN. Whatever, I'm rambling. And getting upset just thinking about some of the dumb stuff that leaves his mouth.